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Snipers

One day I had the privilege of hearing the accounts of a World War II veteran who fought in the European theatre of operations. He was asked what his least favorite part of fighting in the war had been, other than the constant threat of instant death. His answer? “Oh, how I hated snipers”. He described what it felt like to lead a platoon of men through deserted burned-out, bombed-out villages under the constant fear of ending up in the reticle of a german sniper scope. It gave you chills. 

Over the years I have found myself leading, never really wanting to do so. I just want to do my part. Why do I not want to lead, you ask? Reason number one: snipers.  Leadership get-a-clue point number one: There will be snipers. What is a sniper? A sniper is someone who covertly airs their discontent or dissatisfaction with something or someone at the expense of the church and her mission. You know a sniper or snipers are around when you sense tension in the environment but can’t put your finger on what the issue is or who it involves. Let me present the tragedy of sniping. Every day there are people dying without Jesus Christ in their lives. People lost eternally. While these people are losing their eternal souls snipers covertly mobilize to relieve their dissatisfaction. Snipers attack in a number of ways. Insinuations of all sorts from blogs to passive aggressive comments, accusing emails, gossip disguised as private conversations, and even an occassional face-to-face confrontation are all popular kill-zones of snipers. These tactics stir up debate about the ineffectiveness of those who have been called to lead. True, leaders make mistakes and should be held accountable. True, leaders sometimes repeat mistakes until they get it right. But snipers hold people accountable in ways contrary to how Jesus has commanded us. Most snipers don’t even realize they are a sniper because they get sucked into a “sniper cell” through someone who seems to care about the church. The sniper is deadly to a church. And all the while people are dying apart from Jesus.

I wouldn’t want to lead in a sniper-rich environment. What I have found is no matter where you lead there will be snipers. They lurk in the shadows. They slow-bleed the church by sapping the life out of it’s troopers. Oh, they eventually come out of the shadows after they have stirred up enough angst. When enough people with pitch forks and torches start showing up as a result of their efforts they reveal themselves, ready to ”lead” for sure… which leads me to Leadership get-a-clue point number two: The Art of Multi-tasking (How to influence people for Jesus while getting your head bashed in). And we wonder why people don’t want to come to church. Silly us! Tricks are for kids!

For those of you new to Jesus and church life, know this. Sniping isn’t a church thang… it’s a people thang. It is really a satan thing. Sniping is unacceptable to God. Though it is a common human dysfunction existing wherever groups of people gather, it is wrong. It is always the result of self-centeredness and one’s unresolved insecurities. A form of projection, if you will.  Jesus died for the church and the church is the hope of the world… when it’s working right. Jesus dealt with snipers. So did Paul. Let not your heart be troubled. We forge ahead despite sniper-fire. Strong leaders deal lovingly but firmly with snipers. Don’t be a sniper. Read Galatians 5:16-26. Peace out!  

 P.S. If you are a Detroit Lions fans you are probably a sniper. A whole other blog topic.  :)   

12 Responses to “Snipers”

  1. My brother what a great post today. I wrote my post before I read yours this morning. Although a little different perspective it is truly the same thoughts. Funny how God does this stuff huh? You have been a wonderful inspiration to me over the years and I do realize that you ain’t any more perfect than I am but you do have a heart for Jesus. I have been sniped before and will admit to some sniping of my own. Thanks be to God for his grace and mercy today. B4T

  2. Church leaders have a thankless job, and their families suffer just as much. I thank God for people like you Dan, that stand in there and take the shots.

    We should pray for our leaders more often.

  3. Good post. One of the reasons I do not attend church is exactly what you post about here. I simply do not wish to deal with the cliques, holier-than-thous, and snipers found in almost every church. It detracts from my worship, it demeans the church as a whole, and makes me second think my whole faith to see things of this nature in a supposedly Christ-led church. In my mind, a true church simplu would not have these things, though I know that is flase reasoning.

    Even Jesus had dissention and traitors in His disciples.

    Still, it is something I have an issue dealing with, and have yet been able to overcome it.

    Thanks for giving a new word to describe people like that, however.

  4. this is a awesome post i wonder sometimes how much sniping I have done. Church is a tough place you never no what to say never no how your going to affend someone or never no if your causing someone to slip great post god love you for all the work you do I no it is a great sacrafice. .

  5. Thanks for the post today, my friend. I hope I have never sniped you, and if I have, I beg for your forgiveness. I couldn’t ask for a better worship leader for our fellowship, your insight and gifting are definitely God-given.

  6. Hey Dan, this Chris. God knows I have partaken in this wretched form of discouragement. Not so much in church, as I have in the workplace, to somehow elevate my pathetic self. Great post and just wanted say how blessed I’ve been to be a worship leading apprentice to the “Real Deal”. You are just about as transparent as they get. I Love You, brother.

  7. It becomes so easy to become a sniper. Our spoken words or our silence become the snippers bullets.

  8. Raivynn – I am really sorry that you have had to experience this in church life. I grew up a “church brat” (parents were very active in the church ALL my life). I have seen it all when it comes to bad behavior.Sniping really is about human relations and people’s inability to inter-relate. But the spiritual side of it involves satan’s influence on us and, unfortunately, we all have fallen into this at one time or another. My prayer for you will be that you return to a church family that loves you and, for the most part, keeps their eye on the real purpose of church and that is growing in relationship with and in the likeness of Jesus Christ and sharing him with the global community as a result. Blessings!

  9. EK – You are absolutely right. Church is a tough place because we have to discipline ourselves in love and that is never easy. I have sniped before and I should have said that in my post. What I and others have failed to realize is the damage it does to me as as a sniper. It damages my credibility with others and my influence in encouraging others in their walk with Jesus. We have to know each other, love each other and in that we learn how to deal with conflict in our lives. You are a good man, EK.

  10. Sammy – Hey, I don’t want you thinking I was expressing frustration with people sniping at me at the moment. Not at all. This wasn’t about me so much. It is really about the church with a capital C. It’s also about NewSong. NS is very vulnerable right now because of our newness and I wanted to call attention to avoiding one of satan’s devices that tears the church apart. All of us will have issues with each other eventually and it is critical that we follow Jesus’ pattern of how to deal with that. I have sniped before and I can tell you it damages me when I do it. I hope that helps. Blessings!

  11. Chris – I love your honesty. You know what? I have done this at work too. I have probably done it at church in the past. It is intent that makes or breaks us, I think. If my intent is to bring someone down in the eyes of another to discredit them then I have assasinated their character. I love the last wline of “Come Together” by Third Day. “We’ve got to learn to love”. Tall order, eh? We can do it. Love ya, Chris.

  12. beartracks (Bruce) – You are so right… it is easy to become a sniper. I know because I have done it too. Interesting comment on silence being a form of sniping. Sounds like another blog, eh? Blessings.


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